Several years ago, I had a discussion with my youngest son, who was going through a hard time. I listened and asked questions, and did my best to enter into his experience. My agenda wasn’t to rescue, fix, or advise, just to let him know I cared and help him think about options.
This is a very powerful piece you have written. It’s an overused phrase, but in this case it is the only thing that can be said.
I think the focusing in on your power is a hard-earned skill, and one I will, after reading this, begin trying to learn.
I am so moved by the honesty and insight that you’ve shared here, and deeply sorry for your loss. Here’s to better times ahead.